Weekends

Weekends used to be different....busy....errands...working out...golf...black tie affairs....new restaurants to try....movies...errands...schlepping kids.....now...so different...weekends are different...quiet, slower...much. Is it all that bad? Does it really matter that the day starts at noon, or later? When you don't know what day it is...does it really matter then? Does it really matter if you do not get dressed until 4pm? Does it really matter that we watch Law & Order around the clock? Hmmm..I used to think it did. I used to fight this...but why? Life is never going to be normal again..why fight it? Just do your best with it. Don't focus on what isn't...focus on what IS. Don't focus on what can't be done anymore...focus on what CAN be done....for us, that means....spending so much time together...time we didnt' have before...time we just couldn't FIND before...funny how it is found now, isn't it? Talking to old friends more frequently...that's a good thing. Seeing our oldest son more often. Seeing most of our friends more often. Seeing family more often. Makes me wonder what we even DID before....before the BT....BBT....what did we do that was so darn important we didnt' have much time for each other?? Funny how that works, isn't it... Have a good weekend. Cathy